A quality to grasp at, if granted to an individual, surely does wonder in his life
One such quality is..TRUST or I more specifically, how to keep one's trust
Hello readers!
Morning!(Almost 12: 30 here)
In my last post, I stated that trust is like an eraser, more you make mistakes;more you are compelled to use that eraser which eventually shrinks up to that limit that we cease to even take notice of it.
Trust is an attribute of an individual which,if cultivated with deep devotion towards anything; or anyone, is a feast to behold! Be it friendship, relationship(of what kind,it's your job now to figure it out), no trust=nothing exists there,either you learn to trust the one,or just pull out; whatever you choose, be quick at it.
A line from Matrese Countdown( a marvelous creation..seriously!):-
Trust is built on optimism, it's a series of shadows . No matter how hard we try, we can not give it the space in our 3 Dimensional reality!
After all, the best person we know is ourselves and no other. You can surely get under the skinof the other, but the mind is impenetrable . You never know what million alternatives one might be planning to back stab you the moment his interests are fulfilled, What we make are wild guesses ,which further take up a shape of non-existent mind reader qualities which no one can actually boast of!
In our younger self, our argument can be that "you've got to start somewhere , just brooding over it doesn't develops that sense of legitness!"
Personal experience,You preach the same formula for like..5-6 years when you start accepting the world blindly and then...truth hits hard.So hard..many fall in the eternal abyss of pain and depression while a very few bounce back to regain their conscience to pursue the path of endurance and adopt a zeal to live a life at a professional level.
NOW HERE I MIGHT BE GOING OFF TRACK...
But professional level? Many thoughts maybe popping up and the dominant one will be.."What do ya think dude...is life a game??"
My opinion..Yes,it is.Life is the most interesting yet risky multiplayer game one can ever gift as a birthday present..(and surprisingly, god pushed the start button the moment you gulped in your first whiff of oxygen off those tiny and cute nostrils)..your first allies are your mom and dad...next comes siblings and then you build upon yourself. You gain experience upon crossing every obstacle placed in your path!
The game seems simple
Your motive...to survive each round of human atrocities
Your special moves...Love,Passion,Respect,Trust
Your motto...Live and let live
Seems to ideal? too imaginative for human predicament?
OK.let me put it right..
Your motive...to eliminate whatever tries to hamper your progress
Your special power...Back stabbing, Bribery, Relatives, Master mentality
Your motto...do or die
Now..it seems to be in place!right?
Sadly..it IS IN PLACE.
It is perfect fit jeans for our emotional pillars,rusted deep within, corroded by jealousy, infected with greed and what not!
"Bharose par hi duniya kayam hai"--World exists only on the bedrocks of ideals of trust
Truly said....but whom to trust?
A friend with a mask or a satan with a sword?
You might think, why did i presented you only these two choices, Reason is, No one is molded out of pure goodness (except a few saints who are one in Billions). Everyone has got hidden motives,benefits and desires .
People are passionate when it comes to achieving their dreams
But they are pumped up with adrenaline when it comes to achieving their goals..by means of shortcuts i.e breaking trust of few and making path anew!
One can't precisely tell you the definition of a faithful guy but can warn you of such crooks.
May the odds be ever in your favour (in the trust games)!
Signing off
Uddeshya Singh
PS:Man Utd. hammerred 2-0 against West Brom *_*
One such quality is..TRUST or I more specifically, how to keep one's trust
Hello readers!
Morning!(Almost 12: 30 here)
In my last post, I stated that trust is like an eraser, more you make mistakes;more you are compelled to use that eraser which eventually shrinks up to that limit that we cease to even take notice of it.
Trust is an attribute of an individual which,if cultivated with deep devotion towards anything; or anyone, is a feast to behold! Be it friendship, relationship(of what kind,it's your job now to figure it out), no trust=nothing exists there,either you learn to trust the one,or just pull out; whatever you choose, be quick at it.
A line from Matrese Countdown( a marvelous creation..seriously!):-
Trust is built on optimism, it's a series of shadows . No matter how hard we try, we can not give it the space in our 3 Dimensional reality!
After all, the best person we know is ourselves and no other. You can surely get under the skinof the other, but the mind is impenetrable . You never know what million alternatives one might be planning to back stab you the moment his interests are fulfilled, What we make are wild guesses ,which further take up a shape of non-existent mind reader qualities which no one can actually boast of!
In our younger self, our argument can be that "you've got to start somewhere , just brooding over it doesn't develops that sense of legitness!"
Personal experience,You preach the same formula for like..5-6 years when you start accepting the world blindly and then...truth hits hard.So hard..many fall in the eternal abyss of pain and depression while a very few bounce back to regain their conscience to pursue the path of endurance and adopt a zeal to live a life at a professional level.
NOW HERE I MIGHT BE GOING OFF TRACK...
But professional level? Many thoughts maybe popping up and the dominant one will be.."What do ya think dude...is life a game??"
My opinion..Yes,it is.Life is the most interesting yet risky multiplayer game one can ever gift as a birthday present..(and surprisingly, god pushed the start button the moment you gulped in your first whiff of oxygen off those tiny and cute nostrils)..your first allies are your mom and dad...next comes siblings and then you build upon yourself. You gain experience upon crossing every obstacle placed in your path!
The game seems simple
Your motive...to survive each round of human atrocities
Your special moves...Love,Passion,Respect,Trust
Your motto...Live and let live
Seems to ideal? too imaginative for human predicament?
OK.let me put it right..
Your motive...to eliminate whatever tries to hamper your progress
Your special power...Back stabbing, Bribery, Relatives, Master mentality
Your motto...do or die
Now..it seems to be in place!right?
Sadly..it IS IN PLACE.
It is perfect fit jeans for our emotional pillars,rusted deep within, corroded by jealousy, infected with greed and what not!
"Bharose par hi duniya kayam hai"--World exists only on the bedrocks of ideals of trust
Truly said....but whom to trust?
A friend with a mask or a satan with a sword?
You might think, why did i presented you only these two choices, Reason is, No one is molded out of pure goodness (except a few saints who are one in Billions). Everyone has got hidden motives,benefits and desires .
People are passionate when it comes to achieving their dreams
But they are pumped up with adrenaline when it comes to achieving their goals..by means of shortcuts i.e breaking trust of few and making path anew!
One can't precisely tell you the definition of a faithful guy but can warn you of such crooks.
May the odds be ever in your favour (in the trust games)!
Signing off
Uddeshya Singh
PS:Man Utd. hammerred 2-0 against West Brom *_*
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